COUNSELING AND THERAPY WITH LINDA ZANNAFFE OMOLUABI
WHO MATCHMAKING IS NOT FOR
Matchmaking has helped fulfil the dream of many who yearned to meet that dream partner with whom they could finally go into matrimony knowing that harmony is assured.
I am glad that as a therapist I yielded to the prompting of clients to incorporate matchmaking into my practice. I am privileged to have contributed to paving the way for compatible/complementry souls to find each other at last- a yearning which sadly remains unfulfilled in the lives of many till they depart the earth.
I make bold to say that there is absolutely nothing wrong with opting out to engage a matchmaker to match you with a partner when you are ready to take that bold step into matrimony. It is absolutely nothing to be embarrassed or shy about. It does not imply that you failed in the search of a life partner. It might interest to know that traditionally, parents of yore were matchmakers - they were always on the look out for suitable spouses for their children who had come of age.
No one should be brainwashed into thinking that matchmaking is a modern day phenomenon.
However, no matter how beautiful or magical matchmaking is, there are certain individuals who matchmaking is not for. I boldly say matchmaking is not for everyone.
Rather sad for those who believe that they have tried everything within their power to find a suitable life-partner but have failed and are thinking of or have already engaged the services of a matchmaker like me. Among these are men and women who have experienced multiple divorces or separation from partners.
Hear me! Matchmaking is not for serial divorcees. Matchmaking is not for men and women who have had multiple failed relationships and are not ready to submit to a professional to work with them in overcoming factors causing them to have an unsteady relationship.
Why, you might ask - it is simply because the underlying reasons why these men and women have ended up serial divorcees or failed in a multitude of relationships still live with them. Match them with partners and the same pattern of failure in their previous marriage or relationship will be re-enacted.
Matchmaking is not a quick fix for dysfunctional men and women. It just won't work.
What must this category of men and women do in order to benefit from matchmaking? They must seek professional help to correct sabotaging traits and tendencies standing as stumbling blocks to their forming lasting bonds with their significant other. Before you try to bamboozle your way into the life of a gentleman or lady through a matchmaker, let me help fix you. With me, the fixing now comes before the matchmaking for divorcees and as well as men and women with a history of multiple failed relationships.
If you are a serial divorcee or you have a history of multiple failed relationships and you won't allow me first work with you to break the pattern, my matchmaking service is not for you. I won't be the reason why a man or women suffers a heartbreak or gets involved with an abusive partner.
Matchmaking that works is usually between a functional man and woman. If you are a functional man or woman, employed and God fearing, who desires a life-partner, send me an email@ againstdysfunction @gmail.com or connect with me on WhatsApp via: 08070812497
ABOUT LINDA ZANNAFFE OMOLUABI
She is a Relationship/Marriage Therapist, a Writer, Charity Fundraiser and a Matchmaker.
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