THE HATREDS AND BITTERNESS IN POLYGAMOUS FAMILIES

 

THE HATREDS AND BITTERNESS IN POLYGAMOUS FAMILIES

Mmiliaku Genevieve

I have never seen anyone from a polygamous home who loves his or her half siblings the way they love the siblings they share same parents or same mother with.

I'm not saying they don't exist but they are rare.

I've not seen a real life example. 

All the people I know who are from polygamous homes despise, or in some cases are indifferent about their half siblings.

I know some that from January to December they don't talk to or even think about their father's other children from their father's other wives/baby mamas.

As in, they don't even remember they exist.

One of the many reasons Polygamy is dangerous is because it produces children who have little or no love for each other. Children who despise each other and see each other as rivals.

And the most annoying part of this is that in most cases the men who cause this mess by having kids with multiple women almost always die first. 

They are only good at inserting their 3rd legs in every willing vjayjay and produce children like rats, but won't stick around long enough to watch those children literally tear each other down or eat each other up when they grow up.

Many families are suffering in silence because of polygamy. 

So much anger, bitterness, envy, jealousy, hatred and resentment in most families because of polygamy.

But of course, we are not ready for this conversation, especially the men.

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And oh, somehow this is not the case with half siblings who share the same mother.

All the ones I know you'll hardly know that their fathers are different. They love and care for each other like siblings should.

This shows that there is definitely something the so called polygamous men are not doing right, and we need to start talking!